Isn't it just beautiful!?!?!
The wedding was great! It was right around sunset, we had beautiful weather and really spectacular views. And I got to run around the golf course on Saturday morning :)
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| this is to symbolize unity |
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| this is all edible! |
So, here are some more pics of the wedding. It was a bit upsetting, because the bride, I will use an M here, had lost some weight since I had last seen her, and I was really worried that she was not ok :( I thought that I maybe am a bit too sensitive to seeing ED where it doesn't really exist. But then tonight we were at her parents' house and she wasn't around, and it came up. They did say she has some eating problems, and it just makes me so sad :( I don't know what to do? I feel like I might want to send her a letter or something, i just don't know though.... What would you do??
So, other than that and a ride this morning, I didn't do much special. I had a nice relaxing break and am ready to work tomorrow!
I hope you all had a wonderful weekend!! :)
Scott
P.S. My bike is on the way! It is supposed to be here middle of next week :) SO EXCITED!
Oh my gosh, Scott! Those pictures are beautiful!
ReplyDeleteI'm really sorry about the situation with the bride... things like that absolutely suck. I think it goes without saying that she probably needs some help if she has a problem, but I also think you need to remind yourself that there is not much you can do. I know when I was at my worst, I wouldn't even take the help of my immediate family... it has to be a choice that they make on their own. I'm sure you know all this, I just wanted to give my opinion. I don't know how close you are to this lady, but you could always open up about your struggles, which might shed some light on her own for her. It's always feels better to see eye to eye with someone than it does to feel like an outsider.
<3 Tat
Hye Scott!! those pics are so lovely, im glad u had a good time, enjoy ur new bike, fi xxx
ReplyDeleteThese pictures are amazing.
ReplyDeletehey scott.. those pics are amazing!!!!!
ReplyDeletei hate hearing about others eating problems. Unformulatly sometimes you cant do much. Ive watched people just 'start to diet' and its gone way wrong. Sometimes people just need to learn from themselves. Its painful but true....
Dana xo
http://happinessiswithinblog.com/
beautiful pics! yea its so hard when you hear someone who might have an ED. on one hand you want to help and on the other, its so hard to go about helping!
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Wow Sedona looks beautiful! I definitely want to go there one day. You are such a lucky duck! And that wedding looks beautiful! Wow, I love the sand symbolizing unity.
ReplyDeleteAbout the bride -- I'm so sorry. If you two are close, try talking to her or write a letter, but if not then I don't really know what to say. Maybe an anonymous letter? I'm sorry -- I really don't know, but I know how horrible it must feel.
I myself sometimes feel like i see ED in places where he isn't, but sometimes we're just RIGHT. Ya know?
best of luck and all my love,
♥Alexandra
OMG, those pictures are way too spectacular! Sedona looks so beautiful, and I love that picture of the bride and groom holding hands! XD
ReplyDeleteAs for the bride, I'm so sorry to hear that :( I'm sometimes a bit paranoid too when it comes to seeing ED when it really isn't there...it's so hard! I just hope she isn't starting to develop it or anything; she's at such a great place in life right now- getting married and all that, you know?
Good luck!
Paola
Those photos are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!!! Scott, you're an incredible photographer, I thought those were professionally done. You're really talented <3
ReplyDeleteI know how awful you must feel about discovering someone you care for has an eating disorder. :( I would not say anything right now.. (personally) because she has so much going on in her life, that the weight part might be because of all the pressure to look good at her wedding. I would give her some time to adjust to her new life, and if things seem to not be progressing, then maybe mention to her that you are concerned for her, and are available if she ever wants to talk.
Hope everything works out!!!
xoxo
-A <3
Hey Scott! I have been reading your blog for some time and it has really helped me in my recovery from my own ED. You have a wonderful outlook on life and is very inspiring!!!
ReplyDeleteAll of those pictures you took of Sedona are soooo beautiful! I've been there once before and those pictures capture the beauty it holds. That's very nice of you to be worried about the bride you were referring to. I hope that everything works out and that she is able to discover her ED before things get too bad. That's also great that you're getting a bike! I've always wanted to try cycling. Have a great weekend!! :)
I'm sorry I missed this post.
ReplyDeleteI sympathize with you completely. I am someone who loves to help/fix any situation if possible. But, like the other commenter have suggested, sometimes you must realize that you can't fix everything.
Does she know about your past with ED? If so, I don't see the harm in sending an email congratulating her again and then letting her know you're here if she ever needs anythign (without alluding to her problems)...